What Is Physical Clutter?
You know what it is; physical clutter is that “stuff” lying around your house, hiding in closets, toy boxes, maybe even lining the walls and floors… it gets everywhere. And let’s just be honest; that stuff cost money. Maybe you regret spending it or maybe you are hung up on the amount spent on it and don’t want to let it go.
As a noun, Merriam-Webster defines clutter as, “a crowded or confused mass or collection.” Crowded and confused? That sounds about right. As an intransitive verb, it is, ” to run in disorder.” If your life or home feels like a confused crowded mass that runs in disorder then you probably have a clutter problem.
Do you know what this cost?
That’s probably what you think when someone mentions getting rid of your clutter. I have a different question for you, “do you know what it costs you to keep?”
Is it costing a storage unit fee every month? Whatever it cost you to buy it’s costing more to store. Is it costing you your peace? Do you walk around the house wondering what happened? Do you feel overwhelmed at the sight of it all and think it’s hopeless? Does it make you not want to come home at the end of the day because you’ll be faced with all the… stuff? Worse yet, do you fight with your family over it? Chances are your physical clutter is costing you more than you realize. A lot more.
You Can Do Something About
When I think of clutter I’m reminded of a Dave Ramsey quote on debt that floats around a lot on social media, “The bad news is you are the problem. The great news is you are the solution.” I think the same principle applies to clutter. Heck, it probably applies to any and all our issues. But back to clutter…
You made the mess by bringing home too much stuff. Plain and simple. You let it come in the door. Stuff doesn’t walk in on its own, not even the stuff with its own legs. Someone has to get it in the house. Even if you weren’t doing the heavy lifting you allowed it in. Let that sink in for a minute. It’s not a very good feeling, is it?
I’ve been there. You can read all about my Beginnings of a More Minimalist Approach here. Trust me, I know it’s overwhelming. I know it can feel hopeless. I also know that just a ten-minute walk through of your house reevaluating things and picking even one thing per room to donate or sale can feel so good. Dare I say it even feels better than retail therapy? Yes, yes it does.
Unlike retail therapy, you aren’t spending money to temporarily fill a hole that probably requires actual work and time to fill properly, decluttering can help lighten the load physically and mentally. By freeing yourself of things that no longer serve you (if they ever did) you are also freeing yourself of the need to replace them with more things that won’t serve you. Stuff is stuff. The moment you realize that big changes start to happen in your home. And in you.
How to Rid Your Life of Physical Clutter
Yesterday I started working on decluttering my kitchen more. Today I hope to pick up some empty boxes so I can safely pack away glass items to donate. I don’t want any more accidents around here!
I have also started to declutter my bathrooms. Again. This is an ongoing process at our house since our kids are still young, but growing and our needs change. We need to reevaluate from time to time if things are still serving a purpose, and if is there is a need to replace with something that would sere a purpose better.
Most people have heard of the one-in-one-out principle where if you buy one new thing you need to get rid of one thing you already own, but if you haven’t done a thorough decluttering this isn’t going to work. You aren’t getting rid of any clutter this way; you’re simply maintaining the status quo with newer clutter.
One Room at a Time
Pick a room and spend some time in it evaluating the items in that room. Chances are you’ll fill a bag or box, or four rather quickly if you haven’t done an edit recently. Once you get some momentum going and see the items piling up in your donate and sell piles you will likely have some sobering realizations about your choices. That’s okay. You’ll also have feelings of relief and the ability to move around and breathe a little easier at home (literally and figuratively – stuff collects dust and just gets in the way!).
This will motivate you to keep going and will hopefully cause you to stop and think next time you pick up a trinket or doodad in the store and consider taking it to the register. You’ll start asking yourself if you really need something, if it will really bring you happiness in your home as opposed to buyer’s regret, or if it would be better left in the store.
You may even find that you aren’t as tempted to go to certain stores anymore. I know, shocker right? I didn’t use to think I could live without going to Target on a weekly basis, which is weird to me now because I survived most of, if not all of the first two decades of my life without one. Now I almost dread going; there is so much stuff. So much stuff.
Part of this comes with age, maturity, and minimalism, but part of it admittedly comes with having kids. I don’t want to go to most stores now! I have two little helpers eager to put anything and everything in our cart and bring it home.
If you have triggers or stores you know you don’t currently have the willpower to get out of with just the essentials you may just have to find a way to get around that for the time being. You can pick a new store you don’t like spending much time in but seem to find most if not all you need, or if you are brand loyal on certain things try putting in a grocery pickup or drive up order for what you actually need. I love doing this.
For example, I prefer up and up diapers for my youngest but don’t buy baby food or formula anymore so I don’t get free shipping or $15 or $20 gift cards for stocking up on baby food and diapers once a month like in the past. I have taken to placing a monthly drive up order and asking my husband to stop in on the way home from work. This saves time, money, and gas.
I have recently also started placing a grocery pickup order for things I can’t or don’t like to buy at my regular store. Any day I can avoid going into a supercenter is a good day!
Time to Get Started!
Ready to get started?! We’re here all week just for this! Even while I discuss different types of clutter I am re-decluttering my own home and showing you on my Instagram feed, @alifeonadime, my progress throughout different rooms. I’m not just talking about it I’m doing it with you.
Check out my decluttering efforts and post your own to share and motivate others using the hashtag #clutterweek. Happy decluttering everybody!