Tips for a Less Stressful, Easier Morning Routine

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Your Easier Morning Starts with a Better Night Before

The first thing you do to ensure an easier morning is to start the night before. Read my post on 6 Tips to Get a Better Night’s Sleep Now. A great night’s sleep helps a lot. But before you go to bed you’ll want to make sure you get a few things done.

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Before bed…

Clean the kitchen at night to avoid overwhelm in the morning. It makes things so much easier. This is definitely worth the effort. I need to be more consistent with this one. It is so much easier when you can just walk in and start preparing food without first clearing space to work.

I also try to go through her backpack and take home folder as soon as we get home in the afternoon. It helps a lot to get this out of the way. Make sure to check pockets for “souvenirs” and “gifts” your child may have received from friends on the bus, including food or candy. We had a lot of surprises in the backpack last year. I don’t want a repeat!

We get the kids bathed in the evenings. It helps a lot to have a plan for dinner and to eat a little earlier to avoid feeling rushed in the evenings. I also keep a Thieves roller on the kitchen counter so I remember to give her added immune support when I pass out vitamins. Anything I know I’ll likely forget needs to be out in plain sight.

It can help to lay your clothes out the night before. If that works for you great! I tend to change my mind in the morning so I just wait until before my shower to pull something out to wear. I have a lot fewer clothes now since decluttering so it takes much less time.

Start a Little Earlier and Don’t Rush

This has taken me almost 35 years to appreciate. I am NOT a morning person. My personal preference has always been a hit the snooze three times and then see how bare-bones my routine can be. I got so good at it I knew how many minutes I’d save if I cut out certain portions of my morning routine.

It just doesn’t work out that way with kids. They don’t really follow your time table. Last week I finally accepted the only solution was to get around before they’re up.

I am now up a full two hours before we have to step out of the house. This allows me to shower, dress, and have breakfast on the table before I go wake up my first grader. When our youngest isn’t up yet I have about 15 minutes to myself.

It also helps that I stick to the same routine when it comes to getting ready of a morning and when I go to bed; I do things in the same order I’ve done them for years. I’ve yet to step out the door without brushing my teeth or applying deodorant, so I’d say it works for me!

You know your child better than anybody and how long they need to get ready; I have learned that my daughter needs 40 to 45 minutes to get out the door. This allows time to make her bed, get dressed, eat, brush teeth, and fix hair. Any longer and she will be sidetracked and we can still end up late!

For an easier morning, you need a game plan

If you don’t want to be stressed you need to have a clue before you turn on the kitchen light. There is nothing quite like a frantic rush to figure out what to feed kids (who aren’t all that patient) to derail your morning.

I find my kids don’t fill up on cereal. It’s all they’ll request of a morning, but 3 bowls later and they’re still hungry! Oh, and someone has a tummy ache. I try to feed them scrambled eggs, muffins, or other heartier options rather than cereal. They don’t always cooperate, but a full belly is always better than a hungry or hurting one. Smoothies can also be a great, frugal option.

My planner has meal options already planned out through the rest of the month. I pick a breakfast or lunch option listed on a day prior to my next planned grocery trip and I should have the ingredients.

When my daughter informed me this morning, the day before grocery shopping day, that she wouldn’t eat the lunch I was going to prepare yes, I winged it. But I did know what I had on hand so it didn’t slow me down. Much.

Aim to get out the door 5-10 minutes before necessary and always have the diaper bag

If you aim to be early it’s harder to be late. I typically try to be ready to leave 10 minutes before necessary and you know something? I’m rarely early! But I’m late much less often than in the past.

With babies and toddlers, it is always best to bring the bag in every evening and repack it then. It is no fun to get somewhere, have an epic diaper, and be unprepared. I’ve been there, done that, thrown away all the evidence. Don’t do that to yourself! I take my son’s bag with me just to drop off his sister at school just in case. We’re only planning a 30 minute round trip back home, but you never know, right?

These are the tools I’m using to help get out the door on time and with less stress of a morning. What are your tried and true ways to keep an easier morning routine?